Three Quick Tips to Cure Your Closet Blues
A few weeks ago I started feeling downright TIRED of all my clothes. I'd open my closet door and wanna cry, because everything I had felt THAT uninspiring. For a hot second I imagined what it would be like to donate everything-I-owned and start over.
(Who FEELS ME here?? You? You? You too!?)
Not only have I worn everything in my closet eleventy million ways to Tuesday, but something inside of me is shifting, and the stuff I have hanging inside my closet just isn't connecting me to the feels I want to feel.
The industry makes me think I NEED all new stuff when I start to feel this way, but I've come to realize that THAT is just consumeristic brainwashing designed to keep me from feeling like I am (or have) enough.
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Well I'm not having it. I WILL NOT get myself a whole new wardrobe this week or next.
Just because Pretty Woman did it, doesn't mean I have to, too.
I just need to STRATEGICALLY bring pieces into my closet that make me FEEL like my whole closet is fresh and brand new, even though it isn't.
This isn't my first rodeo feeling UN-inspired by my closet, so you better believe I've got a kickstart-your-closet, super-thrifty strategy for the ages!
1. START WITH A WISHLIST
As I've been going through my closet, I've made mental note of the things I wish I had in my closet. Not just arbitrary "things", but specific things.
Right now, here's what's on my WISH LIST:
black distressed jeans
bandanas/neck gaiters in royal, teal, black... maybe some animal print
a couple of new dresses
some new "disrupt-y" tops
an outdoorsy/puffy vest
2. SET REASONABLE EXPECTATIONS
Not everything on my wishlist is gonna be super easy to find, so I SET REASONABLE EXPECTATIONS right outta the gate.
For example, jeans have to fit, what... like 2000 parts of your body!??! I DO NOT expect to walk into ONE STORE and baBAM, find a pair of jeans that fit MY TODAY-BODY. Finding "the perfect" jeans takes TIME. I know that. And I'm planning for it.
Same with dresses. Yes, they are easier for me to find than jeans, but they are still mighty tricky. I've got a good 12 - 14 inch difference (depending on the day) between my chest and hip measurements, so finding a dress that fits me around the chest AND around the hips takes some doing. It's not impossible and it DOES NOT mean my body is a problem. It means I'm a human being with a really cool human body, and I'm going to have to be patient.
I didn't think finding a puffy vest would be so tricky, but turns out, it's harder than I thought it would be! I bought THIS ONE and THIS ONE, but had to return both because I couldn't get them to fit over my hip bones. Now, I've got my eyes on THIS ONE, but I'm gonna wait for it to go on sale.
3. IDENTIFY THE EASY WINS AND START THERE
Now it's time to pull out the easy wins. In other words, it's time to identify those things that WILL fit your today-body (and your today-budget) no matter what.
For MY list, that's gonna be the bandanas and the neck gaiters. I could gain or lose 15 pounds tonight and those babies will still fit. Plus, bandanas cost $2 each!! Talk about bang for your buck!
Do you know what else is super easy for me to find? SHIRTS - SWEATSHIRTS - SWEATERS! It's true, I have good luck finding tops when I shop, so I've prioritized them during my recent 15-minute shopping trips! And you know what's cool? Every time I wear a new top with a pair of my old jeans, my old jeans feel fresh and new, and I don't feel sad that I don't have black jeans!
Case-In-Point. Check out this new-to-me vest I thrifted over the weekend for $4!! RAWRRR! I love it!! This single piece is gonna turn so much of what I already have into something fresh and feisty, I can tell already!
A couple of weeks ago I had a wicked ah-ha realization when I bought my kid her first pair of Van's. I realized I wanted a pair too!
So I went online, shopped around, and found a pair on Amazon for $35. No kidding. They HAVE BUSTED MY WARDROBE WIDE OPEN!!
I've been wearing them with all of my old worn-a-million-ways clothes... and I've been feeling FRESH FRESH FRESH, every single day!
Case-In-Point. Same jeans - same sweater - add the Vans and the ENERGY totally changes!!
Same hereβ¦
If you're feeling sick and tired of your clothes, don't distress.
1. Make a Wishlist.
2. Set Reasonable Expectations.
3. Start with the Easy Wins.
BaBAM. You'll have brand new closet FEELS... without having to spend the time or the money on a brand new closet!
xo Stasia